Happy Birthday Dad

5.20.00. My eyes are half shut, but I love this photo of you.


Today you are 57. And the beloved Grandpa to five itty bitties. But once upon a time...

• You took me to Perkins for hot cocoa while Mom worked.
• You asked me to spell things for you, and I loved that.
• You took me camping and fishing at Keuka Lake.
• You helped me steer a dirt bike, and I crashed your hand into a tree.
• You made piles, just like me, and saved everything. Just in case.
• You endured endless lectures from me about sunscreen and cigs.
• You gave me my height, speedy metabolism and big eyes.
• And my stubbornness, strength and ability to function on little sleep.
• You always offered to host the party.
• You introduced me to Patsy Kline, Elvis, and Oldies But Goodies.
• You taught me how to drive and were 'the nice one' about my accident.
• You let me raid your sweater drawer in high school.
• You were a stickler for table manners.
• You sent me flowers at school on February 14th.
• You shared my love of circus peanuts and caramel creams.
• You asked that boys come to the door first and introduce themselves.
• You made sure I had money whenever I left the house.
• You told me I could call for a ride, any hour, no questions asked.
• You spoke so highly of me to your friends, which made me feel good.
• You pushed me to be the best at gymnastics, swimming and track.
• You made me take karate, even though I fought you on it.
• You hired the boy with long hair because it was important to me.
• You agreed to drop me off around the corner in the yucky green van.
• You gave me my first worry dolls and heart-shaped locket.
• You taught me to be thankful for a roof over my head and food to eat.
• You helped me move so many times I lost count.
• You took me to the speedway and monster truck rallies.
• You sang "Somewhere Over the Rainbow" at my birthday party.
• You were the best dancer at Mark's wedding.
• You bought me a violin even though I couldn't play well.
• Ditto on the clarinet.
• And the piano lessons, too. Sorry :(
• You agreed to disagree on a whole list of things.
• You taught me about hard work and perseverance.
• You gave me my first car, a Volkswagen Rabbit.
• You gave me away on my wedding day with such pride.