26 February 2010

Snowy Week







Our part of New York was hit with a GINORMOUS storm this week. I've never seen this much nonstop snowfall in my life. It's still going. The snowflakes are like magic though--thick, heavy, wet. They don't seem real, yet here they are falling from the sky by the millions per square inch. The landscape is draped in white as far as the eye can see.


It's early Friday morning and I haven't stepped foot in a car since noon on Tuesday. Doesn't look like today is a go either. If it wasn't for our daily 'nature hikes' around the village the wee ones and I would most certainly suffer from 1st degree cabin fever.


That said, we are relishing the school closings, the slow mornings, the soup + sandwiches, the afternoon puzzle-a-thons {today we did 8}, the imaginary tales, the childish wanderings, the reading and cozying and warming by the fire. Bleu had a rough Tuesday and Wednesday due to some hardcore teething, a runny nose and the fact that she's of a certain age and temperament. But it's all good. We all survived.


Today {meaning Thursday, since I haven't gone to bed yet} I saved our trees and vines from collapsing by knocking snow off branches with a broom stick. The kids watched from the living room window and laughed HYSTERICALLY while I got drenched. There was a lot of "Again, Mommy, again!!" I even tripped in the snow a few times--on purpose--for their amusement. Afterwards I looked like I'd just jumped into the Niagara River fully clothed.


It took me almost an hour to get Bleu down for nap {that's a whole other post}, but as soon as I did Buby and I slipped our boots back on headed out to shovel. Living in a village you need to shovel. Or in his case, play pretend rocket ship on big snow mound. So cute.


Bleu woke up. We fast threw her in a snowsuit, took medicine for my back, and returned to the great outdoors. Our place is all sidewalks and patios and long pathways, and I shoveled my heart out only to have it all covered up within an hour. After dinnertime and baths and two bedtimes I headed back out AGAIN to shovel around 10 p.m. This time branches were down and trees tipping and pathways blocked. It truly is a blizzard here.


The worst part of being stuck at home during a multi-day storm is that we're out of everything good and necessary to eat. Grocery shopping was on the agenda for late Friday or Saturday morning after T-ball. As of this afternoon we are completely out of bottled water and milk and Bleu's beloved cheese. The village water has been coming out dark brown since Tuesday {I have no idea why}, and there's no way we're drinking that. Plus, we lost power six times already tonight. So far. I'm just waiting for it to go out for good.


Update #1: It's 2:30 a.m. now, there is a tree against the house, and I'm still waiting for My Sweets to get home from work. He's stranded on a train about an hour from home {I think}, a train he left work at 7:20 p.m. to catch. There were two initial delays on his line, one being a train in front of his that went off track. His train stopped between stations for over an hour waiting for word that they would continue after repairs to the track. They did continue.


Then a tree fell on the tracks and halted his train indefinitely in the worst possible spot. {This is just like a Thomas the Train story, and Buby would freak if he was up.} To make matters worse, Tom's Blackberry battery died and we lost contact about three hours ago. There is a blizzard outside. I wish I could just go rescue him from wherever he is... it's awful.


I pray to God he is safe and warm and pulls in the driveway any minute. Talk about a long day for him. You know he wakes up at 5:30 a.m. to go to work, and I still have to show him a tree emergency or two. Every couple of minutes our one huge tree slams against the side of the house. I'm thinking something bad will happen soon. Today's part of the storm has probably claimed a good deal of our beautiful landscape, and that's going to make My Sweets sad. Very sad.


I really should get back out there and shovel some more, but at this point it's a losing battle. We'll deal with it in the morning, in a few hours.


Update #2: We lost power for good around 2:40 a.m. Tom arrived home this morning around 3:30 a.m. Our entire area is out {grocery stores, gas stations, etc.}, and people are saying it'll be two to three days before power is restored. We're freezing, have no food or drink and no cell batteries or Internet service, so we packed up the kiddies and headed to the only place anywhere with power. We're at Panera with free WI-FI and charging up our phones, but it looks like everyone else here has the same idea. We've been waiting for our soup for over an hour. :( Hope you're all warm and cozy. We'll check in when possible.





25 February 2010

Mr. Cool


Gym Class






She digs it.








All photos, except for the first one, taken by Grandma DJ on Monday.

On Stage





I absolutely love children's theater, especially when it's inspired by talented artists and authors that have a presence in our home.


Next month we'll be taking Buby and Bleu to Bardavon Opera House to see a live performance of Eric Carle's best works. Yum! I expect it to be well worth the drive... and extra fabulous because my mom will be in town visiting. We've read {and read and read} so many of Carle's 70+ books.


image via Carle's
blog.


24 February 2010

Photo Gallery: The Zoo in Winter






The Seneca Park Zoo welcomed a new polar bear the night before we arrived in town for vacation. His name is Zero, and he's on loan from a zoo in Wisconsin for one year to see if he'll mate with longtime New York resident Aurora. My dad offered to treat us, and I've never said 'no' to a zoo.


We've walked our local wildlife conservatory in the winter but never right after a snowstorm. Buby and Bleu slipped into their snowsuits eager for the adventure. The coolest part was watching Bleu and my dad bond. Finally. I guess she's over her fear of 'mature' men, because she didn't give either Grandpa a fuss this month. She let my dad stroll her or hold her the entire time at the zoo. Buby hung with me and Grandma.


Top sights for the kids included the polar bears {of course}, sea lions, orangutan, rhinos, elephants, tiger, and ostriches.














2.13.10



A Cosmic Evening







We took Buby bowling last Sunday, just Grandma DJ and I. I chose a place about 30 minutes from the house where there was no wait and a bumper bowler and non-bumper bowler could use the same lane. Very groovy.


Buby is a size 13 shoe and a size 6 ball. Considering my ball was only 9 lbs, that's impressive. Buby's high score was 63 {I think... let me check my photo file}.



Unforgettable moments:

  • Buby's happy dance. It was wild and crazy and came after every turn.
  • At 4:16 p.m. when the whole alley unexpectedly switched to black lights.
  • Buby saying, "I knew what I wanted to do and I did it."
  • Our man's dramatic Scarlet O'Hara-like follow through.
  • Buby shouting, "Wish me luck!" as he walked up to the line.



Easy Rider


2.21.10



23 February 2010

I Realize It's February







Buby and I just got around to doing this Christmas puzzle ball on Friday. I'm so embarrassed to admit I have no clue who gave it to us. The box is small, and I recently discovered it at the bottom of a huge travel bin from Family Land. This never happens.


It could have come from any one of the five parties we attended, but my guess would be from a mass cousins exchange at Aunt Mary's on Christmas Eve. My Sweets and I were on opposite sides of the room during the chaos--him with Buby and me with Bleu--and sadly didn't see everything the wee ones opened.


At first glance I thought the idea was GENIUS. I mean, a puzzle with curvy plastic pieces that turns into an ornament for all time? Love everything about that. But 10 minutes turned into an hour and an hour into two. Buby and I would get within three pieces of completing the whole thing just to realize that one itty bitty illustration wasn't lining up right. We'd take it all apart and start again. By this time Buby was convinced it was a cruel joke, an unsolvable obsession.


The puzzle design looks Swedish or German and there were no written instructions. Saturday morning I tried again. Grandma DJ, too. Finally My Sweets stepped in and solved the darn thing in 10 minutes simply by following the number clues on the back. Showoff!


Anyway, I'm back to thinking it's GENIUS. We'll hang this ornament on Buby + Bleu's tree from now until eternity. So thank you... to whomever it may concern... for the gift.




The Cuff Links







Customized cuff links with the kids' initials. My Valentine's Day present to My Sweets.





3 1/2 Days






Today we dropped Grandma DJ at the airport after a long weekend visit. The 20-minute ride home was difficult. It always is. Starting about an hour before we leave the house on departure day, Buby will say things like, "I'm sure gonna miss you, Grandma. Super much." And then he'll momentarily tip his head in sadness.


Later we pull up to Departing Flights. Grandma opens each of the kids' doors for goodbye hugs and kisses. I unroll their windows for a final shout out before pulling away. Within seconds I turn around and Buby's eyes are wet and glossy; his lower lip quivering. Then... the cry.


Buby doesn't often cry, but he does cry for his Grandma DJ on the day she leaves. Always. I do my best to reassure, console, treat him to a lil' something. I hold his hand while I drive and explain that he'll see Grandma again soon. Probably next month. But that's not good enough. "I wish she could come to my house every day," he cries. Bleu is a copy cat, so she gets weird, too, but she isn't sure why.











On today's ride home I reminded Buby and Bleu how truly blessed they are. I didn't have a grandma like Grandma DJ growing up. I didn't have a grandma like Grandma M. either. My grandmothers loved me, in their own way, but they were old. They didn't go places. They didn't walk me to the library and then cuddle up and read a dozen books in a row. They didn't light up at my jokes and tell me I was their most coolest buddy in the whole wide world. They didn't know my always-changing list of faves. They didn't throw snowballs back or send love notes in the mail.


I told Buby that Daddy had a special grandma, too. And before I could even finish my sentence Buby interrupted with, "But MY grandma lives far." Anyway....


An hour later we were fine. I put Buby on the phone with Tom at work. I overheard Tom say, "You know why you miss her so much? Because she loves you so much."





i heart






I've seen this quote by SARK {author Susan Ariel Rainbow Kennedy} before, and just recently again here. So simple + true. I love lil' reminders like these, don't you?




22 February 2010

Hand-Me-Downs







What she really means to say is, "Thank you Sid and Lily for the awesome clothes you gave to me. I especially love wearing dresses over pants."




Fishing in the Air






We're reading so many wonderful and entertaining books this week that I can't possibly feature them all. But my brand new favorite is Fishing in the Air by Sharon Creech and Chris Raschka.


Grandma DJ gifted this fantastically illustrated hardcover to My Sweets for his birthday on Saturday. It's the tale of a father and son who embark on an early-morning fishing trip together and let their imaginations run vivid. My kind of book.




20 February 2010

Birthday Love







A billion birthday wishes to my love. Seriously, you are amazing. Thank you for being you and for loving me. Here's to the next 35.




19 February 2010

Old Photo Friday







Summer of '98 at my brother's wedding.




Potty Girl


No modesty in Grandma's kitchen.





At 21 months Bleu is almost completely potty trained. And if she had it her way, she would've been several months ago. I definitely slowed the process due to all of our holiday travels and the general belief that diapers are easier than roadside emergencies and conflicting messages about when and when not to go. She's young yet.


But Bleu wouldn't let this last trip derail her big girlness one bit. We brought the new travel potty, and she planted herself on it at every turn without a single reminder from me. I just set it up and she did her thing.


That's pretty much what we've done at home. Very lassez-faire. There are potties conveniently placed throughout, and she just uses them as she sees fit. We have two Baby Bjorn standalones {one on the first floor and one on the third}, two child-size toilet seats {on the second and third floors}, and now the travel potty you see above, which I keep in the car. She likes all three designs and shows no real preference.


I remember Buby was eager to potty train, too, but it was a more gradual process with him. I never had a "plan" this time around, except to make it a pleasant experience. I know if she felt pressure she'd run the other way. I never used rewards, unless you count "good job" hugs from the big bro. I never set a clock.


She just loves stripping down to nakie and seeing how much she can fill that bowl. Having a four year old to mimic helps, too. During our bedtime routine she drags the little red potty down the hall and into the bathroom next to Buby, and they do their deeds side-by-side while telling knock-knock jokes. I assure you... that is some kind of hilarious.


Bleu chooses cotton undies over pull-up training diapers. But if she has to go and there is no toilet available, she'll eventually give in. So I must insist on pull-ups at bedtime and anytime we're in the car. Which, unfortunately, is often.


But we're getting there. She is in her own time, and it's cool to watch.



18 February 2010

On the Farm






*Grandpa J has a big glass cookie jar {designed by Sid + Lily} in the middle of his kitchen table, and it's always full. Full of the kind of the cookies I would never offer the kids. But HE does, and I sort of secretly love that. With a two-cookie limit, of course.


*Grandpa J. has an old piano, or "pinano" as Buby would say. We aren't in the door two seconds before coats are thrown over chairs and my little darlings are in the other room playing their hearts out. Making music. Giggling. I love that Grandpa lets them go to town on that thing, and I'm sure they'll keep those memories forever.


*Grandpa J. has a box of rusty Matchbox cars that used to belong to Daddy and Uncle Mike. {We know whose were whose, because Uncle Mike liked his masking tape and pencil.} The kids look forward to dumping and sorting on the orange shag. There are no big plastic toys, no kid movies, no games or puzzles on the farm. Other relatives have those things and that's cool, but I like that Grandpa's is quiet and our time there always wonderfully spent catching up or exploring.


*Grandpa J. has our full attention. There are no stresses, no to-do list, nowhere else to be. When the big guy hears us coming he turns off the TV or down the radio and simply enjoys our company. Monday's visit was only meant to be a quick hello, but none of us wanted to leave.


*Grandpa J. has a big wooden rocking chair. When we're in the living room chatting, that's where he sits. Usually with Buby on his knee.


*Grandpa J. has a Ford tractor. My boys considers himself the #1 authority on Grandpa's tractor, and he hides well his terrible disappointment in the dead of winter when the tractor is a no-go.


*Grandpa J. has a scale on his bathroom floor. It's one of those old-fashioned clunkers. Buby and Bleu weigh themselves at least three times a visit. Maybe to see where all the cookies and milk have gone.


*Grandpa J. has a low-hung chandelier in his dining room with no dining room table under it. This is true for at least the last 15 years. To get from kitchen to living room we walk through the dining room. I hit my head a lot.


*Grandpa J. has an eye for deer. He points them out in the field and has binoculars at the ready.


*Grandpa J. has a diner near his house. A fabulous, small-town diner where everyone knows his name and our faces. I don't remember a visit where he didn't ask, "You guys hungry?" It's so sweet that he likes to feed us.


*Grandpa J. has reading glasses and patience to go with it. I remember once Buby walking up to him with a book, a pair of specs off the kitchen table, and a please-lift-me-onto-your-lap smirk. Grandpa read that story over and over because that's what Buby wanted.


*Grandpa J. has two sons, two {awesome} daughters-in-law, two grandsons, and three granddaugthers who adore everything that makes him HIM.






2.15.10


The Newby






Introducing baby Harper. Little sister to Reagan. Third cousin to Buby and Bleu. Newborn heaven to me. I finally got to hold H.G. on her three-week birthday. Debbie, Frank and Co. live about an hour from where we stay in Family Land, and we made the trip Monday.


Watching Harper snooze on that bed inspired me to want another babes in our house. Seriously. Not really. Ugh. I can't decide. But MAN, she is a beauty. I love her already. And those LIPS. Just like her sister's.









Speaking of... it was so good to see Reagan. It's been since 12.26. I think if we didn't live ten million minutes away, she and Buby would be supertight buds. I liked watching them talk dragons, explain Mickey Yatzee, dip carrots in ranch. Buby thinks the world of his cous.









Did I mention treats? Oh yes. Heart-shaped Krispies courtesy of the girls.






For sure Bleu's favorite part of the day.